The Holy Family
Today we celebrate the feast of the Holy Family. yesterday we celebrated the birth of a tiny Baby, greeted with awe and adoration. Today, we commemorate a family in deep stress because their Son is seen as a threat to a jealous king: Joseph and Mary are running for their lives from Herod the Great. Tradition says that after three years in exile, another angel informs Joseph that Herod the Great is dead. The Holy Family returns to their homeland, not to Bethlehem, since the new King Archelaus who reigns in his father’s place is also a cruel and barbaric ruler. Joseph brings Mary and Jesus to his native town of Nazareth in Galilee. There, they lived a simple ordinary life, Joseph as a carpenter, and Mary as a housewife and mother.
Jesus grew in holiness and in knowledge of God’s will in the same ordinary ways that families do in our day. St. Paul, in the reading from Colossians, gives families, both our own individual families, and the wider family of the Church and state a surefire formula for success. We are to act with “heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another.” This is a lovely piece of scripture because compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience are for me signs of mercy. As we think about the Holy Family we recognize the sacrifice that Joseph and Mary made for Jesus, in the same way as we recognize the many sacrifices our own parents made for us and many more are making for their children today in our I want what I want and I get what I want world. Our families would find the disagreements, stressful relationships, and resentments that spoil the joy of family harmony so much easier to solve by trying to imitate the faith and loving trust of the Holy Family.
“Lord Jesus, you came to restore us to unity with the Father in heaven. Where there is division, bring healing and pardon. May all people and families find peace, wholeness, and unity in you, the Prince of Peace.”